Your wife has a lot on his mind. It should not be news to you. So all excitement, I compiled a very short list of a couple of things you can help her. I encourage my Grooms to get right into the process, but is a list of the most popular, like my boys to get himself.
A steak, a steak ... My kingdom for a steak!
Guys love food! May once said that the fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So why not take it and make it to you. You can decide what cut of steak, you are having for dinner and if you are not the steak. Now it is a great deal to do. Call the place of welcome and sends them to the options for food offer. If you see something you like, but it is linked to things about the crazy, ask them if there is some wiggle "room. You never know until you, so do not be afraid to ask. We had appies Caesar salad for one of our wedding, but I love tomatoes, Cherry is accurate. So I had the best drop some cherry tomatoes in salads. See if you can combine the items menu, if it is takes your fancy. And a 'another great thing about it, taste it! Most areas offer a test to help you make your mind. So what you can do is make a date for it. dress up and make the bride test (one just make sure you confirm the date and time with her so it is available). The chef usually let you choose A few appies, network and truth, and ask if you can have wine paired with each course. So have a nice dinner, some places will do it for free, and you can do it and not talk marital ... talk about food!
Honeymoon suite is not just a band
After the bouquet was thrown, Gartner is transferred, the last song is played and the whole party is done. When the last visitor was drunk stumbled back to their room, time for you to go on honeymoon Suite. Most people forget all about the honeymoon Suite. But why you? The higher end packages with decorating the suite for you and your wife to enjoy. Rose petals, music, maybe some 'conditions of irradiation, etc. The trick is not to tell her about it. If you have a planner, take your best people to do it for you. He melt. You can set iPhone to repeat his favorite songs playing came in the room (but remember to take it again) with some perfume, but not too strong ... do not want him sneezing all night. And to take another step forward ... why not make all the plans for the honeymoon? Sure, take his opinion on what he wanted to do. But it takes care of details. If you have a designer who can help locations, flight and travel agents. So while it seems you have made to assign the work, all you really need to do is call the planner to date, and more and you can make adjustments.
Play funky music!
Music can make or break still. Do not let it break you? A DJ or band is crucial for an event. We all have opinions on music, the first song should be, and songs that, in any event not to be played at a wedding again. Chicken Dance ... I'm looking in your direction. So, after getting back his opinion, you really need to choose your first dance together. Continue the process. Grab the Yellow Pages or your Google page and start looking for people in your area. Sure to interview them. I am sure, as I said, I shot first rule of 3 DJ's that guy I married. Today is my # 1 recommended DJ for all my weddings. Made in Fernie wedding last year and packing his gear from 1 to cries of "ONE MORE SONG, ONE MORE SONG!" If you are looking for a band, get them to send a demo CD or something. Even better, if you are local and have a concert, take your boyfriend for a good concert and see what they think. It is not stress cousin a cold night outside. Both DJ's, get references from past clients, make sure they have a website, see what offers it and if the lighting in travel costs are included or extra. Choose a good child, if a DJ, not read by most people, you are screwed.
Rear of Advice
Make sure you marry your help in the planning process. If for no more than selfish reasons. A happy wife makes for a happy marriage and wedding night very happy. More will actually reduce possible tensions or arguments during the planning process. I mean, come on ... the 3 things mentioned above are really not so hard to get a handle and can be fun to do also. Many, many other things you can get your hands, but these, as I said is the first 3 of my Grooms usually get more involved you
Marriage is a partnership, so part of preparation for marriage. Create a responsibility, hey, you asked to marry him right!? Not only you can pop the question, then sit back and say ... OK my part, off you go. Not cool at all. Plus if you get involved, you your thoughts on the process as well. I always tell our Couples that marriage should be an eye both on their personalities, and I stand by that. So boys involved. Sometimes he even turns out to be fun!